You want to give somebody all the happiness you could. You want to provide him to best of your ability. But the person does not want your love. Even though you feel that you have the capacity to make some one happy, the other person does not want to accept it. Even though you are provider, you feel unhappy about this situation. So why do you feel pain, you are supposedly on a elevated position–
I think we always want our feelings to be reciprocated. Though we feel we are generous in feelings, we want same things to be returned to us. This expectaition actually kills everything which was initially good and true. It is probabaly never fair from very beginning, this give and take is never pure at least in my opinion. I think, i would like to inculcate that purity in my thought and action in me. I don’t want my love to be bounded. I want it free from any expectation.