told by my parents that I should seriously start thinking about getting married. I didn’t reply any thing, my usual delaying tactics of delaying the inevitable. They got a photo and bio-data, they themselves didn’t like the proposal, it happened with the second one as well. I was like Ok, let them do what ever they want to do, i will see what lies ahead in the future.
One fine day, an email from my younger sis arrived, with a phone number,a photo and bio data. I am chatting with a girl from last few days on gmail IM. I have phoned her couple of times. She seems ok…but i kinda do not like the methodology we apply to finalize the arrange marriage. This whole get to know each other business, and what if i say no, or she says no. It hurts… right? It’s neither a love marriage nor a arrange marriage in totality. I have four sisters, i have seen how it hurts when they use to face rejection..many time they travelled thousands of km on high-priced flight tickets to face rejection. I am so thankful to god that, my sisters are happily married now and everything is fine. This girl with whom I am talking is a small town girl, from a place near to my native in Bihar. She has completed MBA from one of the not so good college from Bangalore and looking for job. …….
~To be Continued
November 6, 2011 at 12:22 am |
Interesting! And all the best!
November 15, 2011 at 1:44 pm |
My conversation with this girl has ended…The girl kinda liked talking to me and wanted to be in touch..But her parents decided that they could find a better match for her…i said good luck to her and stopped responding to her emails/msg.